Hawaii · Divorce laws · Updated Oct 2026
Hawaii divorce laws
Who can file for divorce in Hawaii, how long it takes, the official forms and fees, property, support and children, in plain English from official sources, with a free timeline estimator and checklist.
Where and how to file in Hawaii
- Who can file (residency)
- You file in the family court of the circuit where you are domiciled (live with the intent to stay) when you file. Since a 2021 amendment, the statute sets no minimum length of time for divorce. Military members stationed in Hawaii can qualify. Same-sex couples married in Hawaii who can't divorce where they live may file here.
- Waiting period
- The law sets no fixed waiting period for a divorce on the ground that the marriage is irretrievably broken. If your spouse denies the marriage is broken, the judge can continue the case 30 to 60 days for further hearing.
- Court
- Family Court of the circuit where you live
- Official forms
- Divorce forms (Hawaii courts)
- Court self-help
- Divorce self-help (Hawaii courts)
- Filing fee
- Check with your court
- If you can't afford the fee
- Ask the family court to let you file without paying the fee (in forma pauperis). The form is available from the family court clerk or the Hawaii State Judiciary forms page.
- Simpler process for agreed cases
- Uncontested divorce: if your spouse agrees or doesn't respond, the court may skip the hearing and accept proof by affidavit (Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-42(a)).
- Law
- Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-1 (am. L 2021, c 69) · Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-42
Divorce in Hawaii, step by step
Check that you can file in Hawaii
You file in the family court of the circuit where you are domiciled (live with the intent to stay) when you file.
Get the official forms
Use the court's official divorce forms: Divorce forms (Hawaii courts) Uncontested divorce: if your spouse agrees or doesn't respond, the court may skip the hearing and accept proof by affidavit (Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-42(a)).
File the papers and pay the fee, or ask for a waiver
File with the Family Court of the circuit where you live. Can't afford it? Ask the family court to let you file without paying the fee (in forma pauperis).
Serve your spouse
Your spouse must be personally served with the complaint and summons, or can sign an Appearance and Waiver.
Your spouse responds
Follow the deadline on the summons. The summons states the deadline. If your spouse doesn't respond in time, you can usually ask for a default judgment.
Wait out the waiting period
The law sets no fixed waiting period for a divorce on the ground that the marriage is irretrievably broken.
Agree, or go to mediation or a hearing
Family courts can refer contested custody and property issues to mediation. If you agree on everything, you can usually submit a signed agreement. If not, the judge decides the issues you can't settle.
Get the final decree
The judge signs the final decree (judgment), which ends the marriage. Get a certified copy and keep it. Name change: Usually yes: you can ask the court to restore a former name in your divorce decree.
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Grounds for divorce in Hawaii
- No-fault ground
- the marriage is irretrievably broken (other no-fault grounds: living apart 2+ years, or under a separation decree)
- Fault grounds
- Not available: no-fault only
- Law
- Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-41
Property and debts in Hawaii
- System
- Equitable distribution
- The rule
- The family court divides and distributes the spouses' property and debts in a way that is just and equitable, considering each spouse's merits and abilities, the condition each will be left in, and the burdens of supporting the children.
- Law
- Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-47
Alimony (spousal support) in Hawaii
Called spousal support. The court can order support that is just and equitable, looking at factors in the statute such as each spouse's financial resources, ability to meet their own needs, the standard of living, length of the marriage, age, health, and the time needed for training. There is no formula. Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-47.
Children: custody and support in Hawaii
- What Hawaii calls custody
- custody and visitation (legal and physical custody)
- Parenting class
- Parents in contested custody cases are often ordered to attend a court parent-education program (such as Kids First on Oahu). Ask your family court.
- Child support agency
- Hawaii Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA)
Serving your spouse in Hawaii
- How your spouse gets the papers
- Your spouse must be personally served with the complaint and summons, or can sign an Appearance and Waiver. Other methods (mail, publication) need permission or meet court rules.
- Time to respond
- Follow the deadline on the summons. Hawaii family court rules generally give 20 days after service (not confirmed on an official page we could read).
- Law
- Haw. Fam. Ct. R. 4, 12
Going back to a former name in Hawaii
Usually yes: you can ask the court to restore a former name in your divorce decree. Ask the family court clerk how to request it on the current forms.
Mediation in Hawaii
Family courts can refer contested custody and property issues to mediation. Ask your family court about local programs.
If you are in danger
If you are in danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is free, confidential and open 24/7, in English and Spanish: call 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or chat at thehotline.org.
Protective orders in Hawaii: If you are in danger, call 911. You can ask the family court for a Temporary Restraining Order (Haw. Rev. Stat. 586).
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Good to know in Hawaii
- Hawaii dropped its minimum residency period for divorce in 2021: you only need to be domiciled in Hawaii when you file (Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-1, am. L 2021, c 69).
- Hawaii's divorce statute lists 'irretrievably broken' and long separation as the grounds; fault grounds are not listed (Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-41).
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Questions about divorce in Hawaii
How long do you have to live in Hawaii to file for divorce?
You file in the family court of the circuit where you are domiciled (live with the intent to stay) when you file. Since a 2021 amendment, the statute sets no minimum length of time for divorce. Military members stationed in Hawaii can qualify. Same-sex couples married in Hawaii who can't divorce where they live may file here.
How long does a divorce take in Hawaii?
The law sets no fixed waiting period for a divorce on the ground that the marriage is irretrievably broken. If your spouse denies the marriage is broken, the judge can continue the case 30 to 60 days for further hearing.
What are the grounds for divorce in Hawaii?
Hawaii's no-fault ground is the marriage is irretrievably broken (other no-fault grounds: living apart 2+ years, or under a separation decree). Hawaii has no fault grounds.
Is Hawaii a community property state?
No. Hawaii uses equitable distribution. The family court divides and distributes the spouses' property and debts in a way that is just and equitable, considering each spouse's merits and abilities, the condition each will be left in, and the burdens of supporting the children.
Can I get the divorce filing fee waived in Hawaii?
Ask the family court to let you file without paying the fee (in forma pauperis). The form is available from the family court clerk or the Hawaii State Judiciary forms page.
Is there a simpler divorce process in Hawaii?
Uncontested divorce: if your spouse agrees or doesn't respond, the court may skip the hearing and accept proof by affidavit (Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-42(a)).
How long does my spouse have to respond in Hawaii?
Follow the deadline on the summons. Hawaii family court rules generally give 20 days after service (not confirmed on an official page we could read).
Can I change my name back in a divorce in Hawaii?
Usually yes: you can ask the court to restore a former name in your divorce decree. Ask the family court clerk how to request it on the current forms.
Is mediation required in a divorce in Hawaii?
Family courts can refer contested custody and property issues to mediation. Ask your family court about local programs.
Do divorcing parents have to take a class in Hawaii?
Parents in contested custody cases are often ordered to attend a court parent-education program (such as Kids First on Oahu). Ask your family court.
How does alimony work in Hawaii?
Called spousal support. The court can order support that is just and equitable, looking at factors in the statute such as each spouse's financial resources, ability to meet their own needs, the standard of living, length of the marriage, age, health, and the time needed for training. There is no formula. Haw. Rev. Stat. 580-47.